Introduction
The basis for female sexual success is in knowing and using the Technique. Knowing the Technique begins as a matter of awareness. While it is possible to know the Technique as simply a bodily mechanical process without an awareness of how or why it works, the content of this book is designed to introduce enough of the surrounding details so that you have an intuition to help guide you. These details also serve as an explanation and they demonstrate to you why the Technique is not an illusion, it is a part of the female design. Using the Technique is a matter of tending to a process. You will see that your mind must guide your body through the process so that both the mind and the body work together to achieve the result of orgasm during penetration. When you have attended to these details to completion, then you will have the experience of an outcome that has no equal. In the short term, the rush of chemicals that follows is the reward for your body and your mind working together. In the long term, when you have applied this organically derived knowledge in a committed relationship, then you will know what it feels like to truly evolve yourselves as lovers together.
Every woman should know of the Technique because it is a celebration of what is eternally feminine.
I write this book as a woman in my 40's. It all started for me two decades ago in my early 20's. Soon after becoming sexually active, I made an accidental discovery whereby I found that I could induce my own orgasm during penetration. It became a regular thing for me to do with my steady boyfriend. I found myself referring to it as the Technique to myself in my inner dialogue. At that time, I only understood that if I did the Technique, then I had a great experience without really understanding why it worked for me. It was a distinct thought and concern for me to a point where, during sex, I would find myself feeling ready to finish the activity with the thought "Okay, time for the Technique" and then I would do it and enjoy the outcome. I also recognized that if I didn't use the Technique, then I didn't have an orgasm. Because it first happened so naturally for me, I guessed or estimated that at least a third of women had also somehow stumbled upon the same discovery as I did. Yet, I couldn't explain why other women weren't mentioning or referring to it, or why no one told me this was what I was supposed to do. Probably just the taboo nature of sex, I figured, so I kept quiet about it too. But as time marched on and my awareness of the realities of other women became clearer, I started to understand how rare this knowledge is. Meanwhile, I continued to use the Technique for the simple reason that I never found a better solution and this was what worked for me. The efforts for writing this book began when I had an incidental moment with a young woman in her early 20's and I suddenly realized the difference in her life trajectory based on knowing this information versus never knowing this information.
The dynamics I saw playing out for her in the worst case would go like this. If she does not learn how to orgasm, then she will not readily take pleasure from sex. If she does not take pleasure from sex, then her long term relationships are likely to suffer from the difference between how much her partner desires sex and how disincentivizing sex becomes to her. This imbalance causes frustrations in the relationship. Frustrations can develop into anger. Anger can develop into endangerment. As a woman in midlife, I see that the best way to prevent this particular dynamic from happening to her is for her to learn the Technique. I want her to have the opportunity to know what I have known and not only will this help her from avoiding the aforementioned dynamic, but she will see herself benefit in other ways as well.
While my enthusiasm for the Technique is high and I could write many more pages of content on this topic for this book, I made an editorial decision to keep this book as focused on the solution as much as possible. This book is limited in scope to only what is purely needed for a woman unfamiliar with the Technique to develop this understanding within herself. As such, it is a very short read.
The general layout of this guide is arranged as a layered approach, like the layers of an onion. The central idea is rooted in female anatomy and this idea is explored as a theory in four parts. The next layer is about the general idea of the approach and connects anatomical parts to interactions to support biological processes. The next layer is about a phase of self-discovery. Then, a thought process description of the Technique is given. The lasting consequences of knowing the Technique is then illustrated. Finally, a brief conclusion wraps up the content.